Monday, November 14, 2016

Hurtles of parenting

Some folks like to focus on the milestones of parenting and of child development.  I feel that it is important to be aware of the hurtles.  Like milestones, hurtles correspond with the age of a child yet they are nuisances that you can't knock down or go around.  You just have to get over them and keep going and try not to fall down.

Age 3:  child discovers what a computer is and demands to be on it all the time.  Child has also not mastered consequences or self control.

Age 3:  wants to have shirt tucked into shorts/pants.

Age 3:  child will not remember their own shoes when they get into the car in a garage and never need shoes, until you "arrive at destination".

Age 6:  child teaches smaller siblings to say bad words and then gets mad when sibling says said words back to them.

Age 6:  child mistakes the golden rule to mean do mean things to people that did them to you.

Age 8:  wants to have shirt tucked into shorts/pants.

Age 11: wants to have shirt tucked into shorts/pants.

OK, I used to be very fond of tucked in shirts myself.  My children are mine.  I love them.

1 comment:

Okishdu said...

Hurtles! It can happen even when they are grown. My recent hurtle is to deal with all the various view points and the manner of expressing them.