Busy Summer

 

 This is a beautiful puzzle that I am not buying because I don't like 1000 piece puzzles.  If it were 500 I would definitely want to get it, even better if it was 300.

My clinic placement is going well.  I only get 6-8 hours a week which is pretty terrible since I drive 6 hours a week and spend over 20 between driving and canceled appointments etc...  But I'm learning a lot and I'm glad I got to work with my supervisor.

Recent events remind me that I don't win by complaining.  While in graduate school I am visiting someone else's house and they make the rules.  If they want me to succeed, they might make things easier for me.  If they don't want me to succeed, they will make things harder for me.  Focusing on the hard isn't going to change anything.  Looking for the good will help me be happier.

P is doing several AP trainings then we'll go pick up M and visit my dad.  The next week I take M to Auburn then continue on to pick up G.  I've got to finish up a few projects and take 2 more tests.  My semester is mostly over.  Phew!  Then I'll have a few weeks off as the kids get settled in school.

This summer has been busy but also really good.  The boys have a piano teacher again.  Hurray!  LP and L are doing a swallowing therapy to help with their teeth.  lP goes to cross country for fun a few mornings a week.  I've been able to do a few walking dates.  lP and B went to orchestra camp.  I'm really proud of P and me for making sure the kids still got to do nice things even though I've been doing a placement and P has had several weeks of AP things.

What's Next? School Placement

 The kids are doing good in school.  I spent the last 2 weeks volunteering at a deaf pre-k and getting my audiology hours with an audiologist at the hospital.  One my last day one of the kids from the pre-k came in for an appointment.  We played and hung out so mom and the audiologist could actually counsel.  It was a beautiful way to end my time with both places.  

I'll be going to an elementary school and middle school this semester MTW.  My goal is to get 150 hours which I should be able to get in 11 weeks at 15 hours a week.  I need 244 hours to get my medical placement in the fall.  I need 13:45 hours of child dx speech and 1:40 hours of language dx.  For adult I need 20 hours of speech dx, and tx, 19 hours of adult language dx, and 4:20 hours of language tx.  I have had 2 adult clients so far so I have gotten a good chunk of my language therapy hours for adults.  In my medical placement there will hopefully be plenty of dysphagia hours so I can get what I need.

School is going well.  I like to stay ahead on assignments so it's going to be OK.  This semester is hard but it's OK.  Our new professor has us writing a lot and wants us to do a big research project and presentation at the end.  I'm weird so I say "bring it!" Being an adult in graduate school is great.

Back in the spring I started working on an AAC user that had sign language pictures for icons.  What I love about this is that hearing parents can use this like a dictionary to build sentences.  The app's ability to show the icon with the word removes the working memory burden moving from single signs to phrases and sentences.  I'm so excited about this. I was going full steam for a few weeks but then classes picked up and life.  I submitted the idea as a proposal to a conference and forgot about it.

When G came home I asked him to pick up the project and keep adding signs to the platform.  He's done several pages and it's nice having his help.  A few days ago I heard back from the conference telling me that they would like me to prepare to be a back-up presenter.  They offered me free registration to be flexible.  I wrote back saying I'd like to and asking if my son could also be included since he is working on it and graduated from the school in the town the conference is being held.  They were really excited about that.  So maybe that will happen!  Of course it is the week before graduation but I'll be done with finals and everything will be awesome!

lP is working so hard on her AP US history class.  I'm glad she has the opportunity to work hard.  It's a life skill. She walks home from school several days a week.  She keeps surprising me with different ways that she is shy or doesn't want to do things that are no big deal to me, yet she does other things so easily.

L did not know he was supposed to be doing specific IXL assignments so he is 20 behind! He also didn't know he should do his bellringer work at home.  So we're playing catch up.

M called last Sunday and it was so nice to chat. She has 6 classes, RA, rowing team, life guard, lab assistant, busy and amazing.

B loves being in the band and getting good grades.  We sometimes have some time together in the mornings and we play a round of solitaire together.  He's so fun.

Today was a day of service for our congregation.  P, G, and B went to help someone move.  L and I went to help with clean up of a tree that was cut down for a ward member.  Folks here are so competent.  It's awesome.

I passed!

 I took my praxis exam Friday and passed.  

With G home this last month we have seen miracles with his ability to get to all the specialists and all the things.  Blood tests, ultrasounds, ENT, Audiology, deaf things, sleep things.  It has been awesome.  We got letters to support his petition for dropping classes from SF.  We'll find out in October if his petition is granted.

At the end of summer semester my professor mentioned that we should take the Praxis now so we knew what to expect.  I had a month between semesters and the kids were going back to school.  I scheduled my exam for the first day of my semester and purchased the reschedule option just in case life happened.  Life did happen and with all the appointments for G I pushed my test date back a week.  By Wednesday of this week my brain was ready to pop.  I couldn't learn anything else.  I just had to keep it all in.  It was such a relief to take the test and know that I can look things up going forward.

Today we had an RS conference and all the inspirational talks reminded me of hard times in my life.  Having gone through so much with G I just feel reminded/triggered rather than inspired listening to the courage of these women going through hard things.  I'm so grateful that he lives, that he can communicate, that he is a fun brother, and helpful son.  He's had an unfair share of life but he's so capable.

Falling Flat

 

LP refuses to read lord of the rings so I came up with an evil plan to give her this awesome shirt, then she'd have to read it.  Nope.  She totally turned down my bid for attentions.  Teenagers are hard.  

I got the boys room reset today.  It's fun to see L diving in to playing the drum set and legos.  Yay!

We made a human pyramid.  We have good times yo.

G came home to go to school in town.  His petition to clear his school record has been denied twice and he has one last appeal.  Trying to get things figured out for the appeal has forced us to get his sleep issues diagnosed and it's severe.  So I'm glad that this crisis has led to hopefully life changing treatment.  

This song comes to mind.  We have certainly been blessed by the trials in our life. I'm grateful to have a husband who draws close to me in trial.  Whoooo!  So close.  He's awesome.

Manners

 We have a copy of the 52 Modern Maners.  Today B was reading the "Be a great houseguest" page. He asked me what it meant by hostess gift.  I tried to explain it since we have never stayed with anyone but family really.  He was still confused for a while.  It turns out that he thought the "small hostess gift" was a small baked good by the company Hostess.  He's a delight.

P came back from AP reader camp.  lP came back from FSY camp.  They each had funny stories to share.  lP had counselors who delighted her and lots of funny pictures. All are safely gathered in except the two that grew up.

We had fallen behind on our scripture stories for the old testament.  With my different schedule we were trying to catch up.  B and L wanted to skip ahead, but we persisted.  We read/signed/voices almost every day the last week and are getting close.  Last night P signed 7 panels for me to voice so we would get caught up.  

I love the culture of our family.  We are nice to each other.  We sign.  We work things out.

lP's band is going to London for the New Year's Parade in 2027/2028.  She'd like to go.  Luckly she already has a little job and is saving money for that.  I told her to save $2000 and we'd make up the rest. It's a pretty big deal.  I've never gone to London.  She didn't go on the trip this past year because... but also with the hope of going with B when they are in high school together.  Now she's got a big goal, B doesn't even want to go because it costs money.  That's life.

Summer beauty

 P made us a rain barrel! We had a really nice lunch at Ro's Grille when we drove to pick up the rain barrel.  

lP and B are at a camp for the youth orchestra this week.  lP's oboe teacher let us know about it each year but it was always the same week as a church camp.  This year it worked out and I was glad to send B as well.  They have been having a good time.  The music they are playing is very challenging, great literature.  I'm so glad they have had a chance to go.  Yesterday they had their chamber ensemble concert.  lP played a trio with 2 flutes.  B played in a jazzy quintet.  

The J's invited us to come pick their blueberries which L and I did one day while lP and B were at camp.  Blueberry pies, frozen blueberries, fresh blueberries, it has been grand.  The 90 minutes of great conversation with sister J was awesome.  When we were prepareing to leave she and her daughter surprised us by giving us what they had picked as well.  It was such a beautiful morning.

P is away at AP reader "camp" for Computer Science.  He has had some dissapointments recently and I'm so glad for him to have this chance to shine.

Today lP and I will attend a tea party with the S ladies of pie day and Christmas scavenger hunt fame.  I was just telling HS that so much of the beautiful things I have enjoyed living here are because of her awesome contributions to social gathering and adventure.  

lP goes to FSY next week.  Life is so good.

Clinic placement

 I started doing a rotation in a clinic.  I see clients aged 1-65 and really enjoy it.  My supervisor is really cool and I am looking forward to having her guidance for the next 2 months.

P is doing an awesome job of managing everything I am not getting done.  He's so good at getting the kids to their appointments and making dinner on nights when I have class.  I'm so grateful for him.

Good times

 We've been having such a good time with M.  Here she was arm wrestling B.  He said everything hurt.

I took the ladies group kayaking in April and again in May.  

School break was nice but back to the books.  I have a placement in a town 50 minutes away.  That's rough but I'll survive and learn.  I got all As last semester and I'm already writing my paper that is due in 10 days.

P has been accepted as an AP reader for computer science.  This is a big deal and I'm so glad for him.

May party

 We invited friends to come dance the maypole.  This was a learning experience for sure.  So many things were awesome and I hope to do it again each year.

I got spools of tulle which created a beautiful display while the pole was waiting but didn't work as well for the actual weaving because it stretched.

We had 5 families join us and enjoyed a potluck and burgers.  The kids played wiffle ball in the back yard and it was so beautiful.  

I'm so grateful to have these beautiful memories and good times.  My life is so full of beautiful times and good people.

Ropes Facilitator

 In May I was asked to become trained on the ropes course at the local church owned camp.  This involved 3 days of training 8-5 and making sure I was available to go to camp.  This worked out perfectly with my semester break.  I've enjoyed this so thoroughly and learned a lot from it.

This is the view from the mid-zip position I was trained on.  Here I would use a brake mechanism to slow the participant down and get them to the platform.  There is a rope attached to the brake that they are instructed to grab that allows me to pull them in the last little bit when they can't touch the platform yet.  I connect them to a "pigtail" on the pole the platform is built on, then transfer their trolley and smart snap hardware to the second zipline for their trip to the ground.

This was me atop the rappeling tower where I recieved climbers and sent them down.  I'm glad I got some good practice at this station during camp.  This is where I developed better visual comfort with heights and confidence in the equipment.

To enter the course participants need to climb this rope ladder.  This is the hardest physical task of the course.  If you can't do it, you are going to come back down and then you will never have to face the other difficulties.  If you can do this rope ladder then nothing else will require more strength.  The other challenges on the coures are 40 feet in the air so that challenges every task in the ropes course. This sweet sister trained to do ground belay but still tried to go up.  She wasn't able to complete the climb but in her own words, it was important for her to try hard things so she could support her young women.  She was so brave.

Working with the ropes course group was lovely.  They all shared this value of wanting to support the youth; giving their time, comfort, physical, and mental energy to learn these skills.  Working together, communicating, learning a little about each other was so good.  At the start everything was so novel and we took pictures of each thing we did.  Wow, I did this!  By the end it was no big deal to get the equipment set up and go do your job.  It was still thrilling to be judged capable of this responsibility because my brain loves that approval, but it wasn't like I had to get pumped up to do the job.

Some memorable times: 

I was on belay for someone and they were struggling.  While on belay there was a ruccus and all the other training team was chatting about it and looking.  It was tempting to put the brake hand down and look too but I kept my eyes on the climber, talking to them, supporting them.  That is what "on-belay" means for me.

I did the "leap of faith" a few times and it always seems like no big deal until you're up at the top and have to stand on the platform, then step off the platform.  Even knowing the rope is on your back it is still hard. I found that I needed to keep my eyes on the red boy to avoid feeling disoriented.  I could get to the platform, get to my knees, then to "mantle" I had to close my eyes because in the moment of standing I couldn't keep my eyes on the ball. That was wild to go up then close my eyes to stand. 

A girl was stuck on the "leap of faith", unwilling to jump.  The safest place to exit this is from the top.  Any other point will have greater likelihood of crashing into the pole.  She was up there sobing for many minutes before the facilitators finally pulled the rope to lift her off.  She clung to the platform.   While on the pole a group of onlookers were consoling and cheering for her.  After she was brought down they couldn't go to her because they didn't have helmets to enter the course area.  I asked the girls waiting to be sent up the ladder to go console her since they had helmets.  Only one went, but I hope that was a good experience for her to leave the group and console someone. I asked her leader the next day if she was fine and she said the girl was totally fine afterward.  

While at mid-zip I had to rescue 2 boys.  The first boy's safesnap strap was too short causing it to pull the trolley sideways and ride on the plastic rather than the wheels.  He didn't make it to to brake zone so I couldn't pull him in.  I had to clip onto the cable and climb out to him, give him a rope (I was supposed to clip a lobster claw to his trolley) and tow him in.  This really tested the limits of my strength.  I was taking smaller and smaller pulls before I reached the platform, but we made it!  The second boy forgot to grab the rope so I climbed out again.  He was much smaller and his trolley was not binding on the cable.  The second rescue was so much easier but I was getting tired so I switched out.

On Monday of camp it rained hard as we were inventorying the equipment.  There was a break in the rain so we set up.  Then it started to rain and kept raining.  I couldn't believe we were doing it in the rain but we did.  Afterward we strung up the equipment in the rafters of a work shed to let it airdry overnight with a fan.

There were so many talk moments in this experience.  As a facilitator it is your job to help the participants experience the course.  You're there to keep them safe so they can have the courage to do hard things.  As a parent I am doing that everyday.  

I learned to shift my gaze and get comfortable seeing the ground very far away.  I say "I learned" but it came with time and exposure.  At the beginning my eyes took a second to focus and in that second I felt off balance for a moment.  With exposure my eye muscles strengthened and my ability to switch instantly to seeing far away improved.  With that instant switch I no longer felt uneasy.  Perspective.

Trust the equipment.  You don't have to worry about falling.  The safesnap/carabiners will keep you from falling.  Focus on what your hands and feet are doing and don't worry about falling.  

There are many lessons in the ropes course.  It is an alegory of this life.  There is strength to be found and opportunities to bless others in the expeirence.  It has been a privilege to join this team, AND now I get ot go to camp forever!

The Saturday before camp our family was invited down to expeirence the course and so I could get more practice.  The kids had fun.  P said I was awesome.  It has been a great thing.  Grandma Buffy!

Ropes

 I finished the semester strong.  I'm pretty sure I got As but more than that I did a lot of hard work and learned a lot.  I'm proud of that.

M is home for a month.  She's been doing rowing, lifeguard, bioengineering, doing well in classes. I'm amazed at her success.  But really, I've known that's who she is all along.  Still.  It amazes me.

I was intited to become trained to run the ropes course for the church camp.  What a thrill.  I love learning, helping, being outdoors.  This is all that!  I jumped off the leap of faith twice today.  Tomorrow we'll do climbing wall and zip-line.  So cool.  I can't believe I get to do this.

P is so good to me.  He supports me in every good thing and takes up so much of the things the family needs in my absense.  I'm so grateful for him.  

I'm glad I'll be done with night classes for a few months.  1 more year until I graduate!  It has been awesome so far.

 UPDATE: I finished the ropes course training and even rappelled off the 40' tower.  I was trained in the mid-zip position which included free climbing a pole with lobster claws, zipping to the midpoint using a grillon and hand brake, receiving and sending participants, setting up the rappel tower, belaying, and running the pamper pole.  It's pretty amazing all they trained us to do in 3 days.  With 20 people getting trained there was a lot of time waiting for your turn but there was also a lot of chance to see the same thing done over and over again.  I thought I was being trained to just put on harnesses, instead, I'm now trained to run major elements of the course.  Heavy.  I can do hard things.

The sweet thing about this is it is a way to always go to camp.  It also puts our family on a list of folks to attend family camp-outs for training.  I am so humbled to be given this opportunity.  It's such a tender mercy to have a role but not be responsible for organizing camp, or people.  I'm serving as primary president right now so this is kind of a sneaky side calling.  I'll get to be there helping youth one at a time, then sending them on.  Nice.

Holy Week and Easter

 I've been seeing clients at the clinic for my program.  All of my areas of study are coming together now that I have clients.  The paperwork, assessments, planning intervention, and code of ethics all hit the road in clinic.  

I left my job in March to do the extra work that clinic would require.  It has been good because I have time now to work on projects and take care of family appointments.  I was so strapped for time in January and February.  Because of holidays and weather days, I kept having to go and work Fridays.  It was frustrating to never have time to go to the Dr., get an oil change, go to the bank; all that stuff that needs to be done, on top of my school work, and seeing the children.  I came home each day from 3-5 to see them and make/share dinner.  I had night class 4 days a week.

I had a group paper and I worked so hard on that paper.  I was waiting for my group members to do anything with it and they never did.  Unfortunately I forgot to put it through Chat GPT to find all the punctuation errors. I felt embarrased that I let them down, but also annoyed that they didn't do anything to help the paper be better.  Oh well.  Our next paper is individual.  I already wrote it, and ran it through Chat GPT.  It's ready to turn in.

B and L are playing Machi Koro this morning.  They are such sweet companions.  I'm grateful for them.  They get along really well.  lP often joins in on their shenanigans and that is very sweet.

We watched conference yesterday and it is so strange to have everyone able to sit still.  For 20 years conference has been a struggle.  Now we're able to enjoy it together, even learning new signs as we watch it with the ASL interpreter.  We have a tradition of eating the 72 hour kit treats during conference.  The kids like that.

P and I sang in a choir with the H and M stakes.  It was so glorious.  We had this lovely backdrop at the H stake center.

In the spring our cherry tree bloosoms and it is gorgeous.

We had such a nice time visiting Florida.  G is so fun to hang out with.  I'm glad we got to spend a lot of time with him.

When someone in our family gets a job we go out for dinner.  lP chose Panda Express so we went there to celebrate her new job.  She's worked 3 days so far.  It's such a cool way for her to have that experience.

Our back yard is so fun.  We have a nice porch right off the back of the house and this big bradford pear tree that shades us in teh summer.

In the back yard we have a trampoline, slack line, and 3 swings.  It is so fun to hang out there.

We had a nice Easter feast.  lP leaned out of the picture.  That's life.  She decorated this carrot cake.  I feel so blessed to have this wonderful family.

M will be an RA

 M applied to be an RA in and also signed a lease for an appartment in October.  At the end of February she was told that she didn't get an RA spot.  The next week she found out that she was moved up and got an RA spot! I made a facebook post to try and sublet her lease.  M found a person to sublet the lease and walked them through the process all by herself!  I gladly paid the $350 fee and she is all set!

Big day for lP

 Yesterday lP got invisilign on her teeth to close her open bite.  After I took her back to school I went by a shop for a replacement purse.  I noticed that they were hiring and asked about the position.  It would be a good job for lP with limited hours and wholesome environment.  When lP got home (walking) I told her about the job and she asked to have a little time before going to interview.  I described what would give them a good impression, especially to be confident with the machine.  She met with the ladies for 45 mintues and they invited her to work there!  What a day.

March has a lot going for it

 I started seeing patients at the clinic for my program.  Knowing this would be more time than I could add to my schedule I gave notice in February to leave my campus job.  I enjoyed many things about working, but it was a lot of stress.  I learned that I need to be very careful about falling into office drama.  

My two patients are working on memory things and that is exciting to learn how to plan therapies. I have been interested in Music Intonation Therapy and I get to use it with one of my clients.  All the paperwork involved with planning and documenting therapy sessions is a lot.  So far I'm keeping my head above water.  

I put in a lot of time working on creating a memory resource for my patient with Broca's Aphasia.  I was telling P that I needed him to write 96% on a paper for me on doing this self assigned project so well.  He wrote me a very nice card and even put one of his A+ shiny smiley face stickers on it.

Friday night we celebrated Spring Break by having a smores cook out and trampolamp out.  The 3 peas tried to sleep on the trampoline.  They came in at 1:45am.  I'm proud of them though.

Our friends the S family are so cool.  They hosted a pi day party and it was so lovely.

Today I am flying to Jtown for a conference on Early Hearing Detection Intervention.  My parent advocacy job is paying for me to go.  P will drive down to Fl Monday with the kids.  Wednesday they will come and pick me up.  I can't believe how awesome the timing and location is for me to go on this trip.  Yay!

On the flight in to Jtown a person in my row was also going to the conference so we shared a lyft to the hotel.  When we got her I met several members sitting at various tables.  It has been truely amazing.  When I went to a conference in Atlanta for Language First it was fun, but I didn't know anyone.  Here I already feel like I have 6 people I can hang out with.  I even got the contact for the Early Intervention providers in Amerian Samoa.  P told me to do a lot of networking and I'm definitely doing that.

P picked me up from the hotel and we went to Taco Louie's to experience the carnitas.  We walked along teh beach afterwards and enjoyed time together.

The hotel had a rooftop pool.

Thursday I attended a tour of FSDB and got to see my friends JH and TS.  I love those ladies.  

We went to Vilano and played on the rocks.

We went to Satchel's and ate yummy pizza and enjoyed the eclectic decor.  Grandma and Grandpa let the kids each get a toy from the lightening salvage store. B got an etch-a-sketch.  L got spy glasses. I got a lunch bag full of finger puppets beause I'm going to be an SLP.

We went around town getting pictures with classic awesomeness like Albert and Alberta.  I love my family.

Baby Roo

 I'm reading Whinnie the Pooh with L and B.  B is enjoying it a lot more.  He is so delightful and really enjoys these stories.  Last night we read about how Rabbit was acting nimby about Kanga and baby Roo.  Rabbit contrives a scheme to kidnap baby Roo to get Kanga to leave the 100 acre woods.  It's horrific.  In the end Rabbit and Pooh end up friends with Kanga and Roo, while Piglet who was most roped into the scheme gets the most blame.  

I was discussing this with L today on the way to school; acknowledging that it was a horrible idea, and that hate comes from ignorance.  Once Rabbit knew Roo, they were friends.  God knows us, and loves us.

I like myself

 Someone asked me today if I was keeping busy in my calling.  They said "Doesn't it seem like there is always more you can do?"  My reply led to a larger response about how I like myself and I don't suffer from the common malady of inadequacy.  I was raised by a fantastically competent woman who told us lots of stories of people being mean to her.  What I took from those stories was that my mom was not perfect, and that those people were jerks to be critical of her rather than helpful.

In my own life, because of my mother, I am very capable, and feel good doing good.  I don't feel inadequate, or like I need to be doing more.  In my current calling I am super aware that there are at least 30 other women in the ward that could do this calling and do a great job.  I just happen to be the one doing it right now and I'm not trying to "impress" anyone, just do my best.

The 4 agreements are very important.  Learning to do your best, take nothing personal, assume nothing, and not use the word for poison, help me be happy.  When I break these agreements I do suffer from self doubt and worrying that people will hate me.  These outbreaks of worry are always less than a few hours, then I stop caring if someone doesn't like me.  That's their problem.  I like me.

When our ward was reorganized we were paired with the Spanish Branch.   I wanted to create a bilingual resource, but by the time I got it done, we aren't paired anymore.  Oh well.  I am pleased with it.  Now I can work on my spanish.  I read the English phrase then I read the Spanish and do sign language at the same time.  If I can't figure out the spanish well enough to put signs with it, I probably don't know the word for real.   

December

 We had an awesome family trip to Florida

Family

Seaworld

St Augustine